The last person to hold you accountable is you yourself. If you allow others to tell you your worth, you will have given up on yourself.
Rita Dove
University of Virginia Commencement 2016, 2016
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Rita Dove, the former U.S. Poet Laureate and Pulitzer Prize winner, delivered the commencement address at the University of Virginia in 2016 — the institution where she had been teaching for twenty-seven years. Rather than offering advice, she offered 'wishes,' casting herself as 'a contrary fairy godmother or a wily genie.' Her second wish was for 'Hard Work,' and she illustrated it with her father's story. As the first African-American research chemist to break the color barrier in the tire and rubber industry, her father knew what it was like to be passed over despite being the best-qualified candidate. His message to her was simple: 'Always be 150% prepared.' In most settings, you won't be asked for more than 75% of your capacity — and depending on your race or gender, you might not be expected to give even 50%. But only you know whether you've given your best. The accountability that matters most is the accountability you demand of yourself.