Graduate now. We are pushing you out of the tub, out of the nest, out into the world, a world which we think that you will find is at least your older brother and a place where you belong.
Paul Hamer
Park Tudor School Commencement 2007, 2007
इस उद्धरण के पीछे की कहानी
In his closing benediction on behalf of the Park Tudor faculty, Hamer wove together all the threads of his speech — the bathtub where his grandmother huddled them for safety, the empty nest he was grieving, and the school that had sheltered these students. Having spent the entire speech exploring themes of fear, vulnerability, and the healing power of his students' attention, Hamer's final metaphor landed with emotional force: the world outside, however frightening it may seem, is not the escaped prisoner grandmother feared. It is family — perhaps a prankster cousin, perhaps an older brother — and it is where the graduates belong.