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Hold your children up high as your greatest inventions because they are. I invented something many of you use every day and it doesn't compare to any day with a happy, healthy child.

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Jon B. Fisher

University of San Francisco Commencement 2018, 2018

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Jon B. Fisher, a Silicon Valley entrepreneur and professor at the University of San Francisco, delivered a commencement address that stood out for its candid prioritization of family over professional achievement. In an era when tech leaders are typically celebrated for disruption and scale, Fisher made the countercultural argument that his greatest invention was not technological. Fisher had spent a decade at USF 'banging my fist on chalkboards and desks, pleading with you guys to marry the right person.' His observations came from watching the most outwardly successful people he knew — many of them divorced — confide that sacrificing their families wasn't worth it. The specificity of his claim ('I invented something many of you use every day') gave the comparison real weight; this wasn't someone who had failed professionally and was rationalizing, but someone who had succeeded and was reporting honestly on what that success felt like. He also offered practical wisdom about building companies: his team didn't waste time commuting to offices or having holiday parties. 'We get it done then we see our families.' For graduates entering a work culture that glorifies hustle and sacrifice, it was a rare permission slip to prioritize what actually matters.

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