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I just wanted him to keep staring at the bird, because we both know that it could fly away at any moment.

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Marian Fontana

Massachusetts School of Law Commencement 2006, 2006

The Story Behind This Quote

In the most poignant passage of her speech, Fontana described watching her son Aidan at a Little League game. Aidan, who had no natural talent or interest in baseball, was in the outfield when he spotted a brilliant red cardinal perched on the chain link fence. 'Look Mom! A Cardinal!' he yelled, ignoring the ball sailing toward him. The first base coach whispered to the head coach that Aidan 'sucked,' and Fontana's heart ached to protect him from all of it — from missed balls and mean people, from being fired or broken up with, from the smell of a hospital and unbearable loneliness. The image of mother and son, both knowing the bird could fly away at any moment, became a devastating metaphor for the fragility of beauty and innocence in a world that has already shown them its worst. It captured the paradox of parenthood after loss: the fierce desire to shield a child from pain combined with the knowledge that such protection is impossible.

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