The highest joy is found in sending down roots. It's the things you chain yourself to that set you free.
David Brooks
Dartmouth College Commencement 2015, 2015
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Brooks closed his Dartmouth address with this paradox, which served as both the culmination of his argument and the emotional climax of the speech. After spending thirty minutes arguing that freedom is overrated and commitments are underrated, he condensed the entire thesis into a single sentence: 'It's the things you chain yourself to that set you free.' The word 'chain' was deliberately provocative. Chains are symbols of bondage, not liberation. But Brooks was arguing that the right chains — marriage, vocation, community, faith — are experienced not as imprisonment but as the structure that allows deep joy. A tree's roots don't limit it; they're what allows it to grow tall. He then painted a scene of the graduates returning to Dartmouth for their 25th reunion, sitting in Adirondack chairs, slipping their hand into the hand of the person they love most, watching their children play. 'You'll think about the totality of your life,' he said, 'and you'll know that you were so lucky to have been at Dartmouth and that after a few years of stumbling, you found a place for yourself in the world, a place deeply connected to commitments of affection that will never fade.'