The best way to make people feel that you're listening to them is to listen to them.
Sal Khan
Massachusetts Institute of Technology Commencement 2012, 2012
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这句语录背后的故事
Sal Khan, the founder of Khan Academy and an MIT triple-degree graduate, delivered an address at his alma mater in 2012 that blended humor, philosophy, and practical wisdom. In the second half of his speech, he offered a series of personal principles for internal strength and happiness, framing them as advice from an imperfect older brother. This deceptively simple observation came amid deeper counsel about positivity, ego surrender, and empathy. Khan presented it with characteristic directness — 'I have a secret here' — before delivering what is essentially a tautology that nonetheless contains a profound truth. In a world of performative attention and multitasking, the radical act of actually listening to another person has become rare enough to feel like a revelation. Coming from someone who built one of the world's largest educational platforms, the emphasis on listening over broadcasting carried particular weight.